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Has your partner suddenly gone back to the gym or started a new diet? Are they taking more care with their appearance? Increased concern over their looks without any affirmation from you could be a sign that they’re trying to impress someone else. 

Is your partner using the phone or computer more often? Do they seem guarded when they text or message others? Have you noticed new passwords or deleted browser histories? These behaviors could be a sign that they’re hiding their communications with someone.

It’s natural to worry when you can’t get a hold of your partner through phone calls or texts. While there could be a legitimate reason, if it starts to happen on a regular basis, it could be a sign of infidelity. 

Having more sex, having less sex, or even new and unexpected kinds of physical intimacy can all be signs of infidelity. Whether it’s a decreased sex drive as a result of focusing on someone else or an increased sex drive due to guilt, both can mean that there is someone else. 

If your partner criticizes your looks or says that they’re no longer attracted to you, claims that you don’t appreciate them, or complains that you’re not adventurous enough in the bedroom, they could be rationalizing their actions to relieve their guilt over being unfaithful to you. These feelings and actions can escalate into resentment and animosity. 

When your partner starts working late more often, goes on unexpected business trips, or offers flimsy excuses for being late, it can be a sign that they are having an affair, especially when changes in their schedule affect time spent as a couple or family.

Do you sense that people in your social circle are looking at you strangely or leaving you out of conversations or texts? Do you sense an unnatural niceness that borders on sympathy? This could be because the victim of cheating is often the last to know, while friends are aware of the situation and are afraid to tell you.

Infidelity doesn’t come cheap - the cost of hotel rooms, dinners, and gifts can add up quickly. If you notice unusual purchases on credit card bills or depleting savings and retirement accounts, the missing money can mean your partner is being unfaithful. If their excuses for unexplained expenses seem flimsy, trust your instincts and seek help from an investigator. 

If the closeness you used to feel with a partner has faded, they’re no longer sharing the important parts of their life with you, it could mean that they’re experiencing that emotional intimacy with someone else. 

If you’ve tried to confront your partner about your suspicions but they turn the accusation around on you to discuss your supposed failures in the relationship, they could be deflecting to put you on the defensive, making you feel like the issues you’re experiencing are your fault. It’s important to trust your instincts. If you suspect that your partner is cheating, get the professional investigative help you need.